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yes: Remember to keep seeking beauty

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You’ve been on my mind, not knowing what to say about Bailey leaving her corporeal form way too soon, but I’ve been searching for a moment & here it is. I’m so sorry for your loss. I knew from the moment I met you, Daniel and Fiona that “If music be the food of love, play on” was the truest thing. I was in awe of the beauty all around you. The beauty that is you and your family from the very beginning. Little Fi running around your apartment, “ Shy, Betsy” “Betsy, Pink!” Such a little monkey flower! I never met Bailey, but I felt like I knew her because I shared those special moments with the rest of her family at the very beginning. I love how you always dig deeper into the fabric of time, Isa. Without illusion. Consistent, dependable, honest and loving. Those smiling flowers. That fish that swam in a mountain lake!! Fi & her friend. The wonder of the air up there. The air out here on the east coast. The profound lure of the city & the theater. What delight Bailey must have felt so much of her lifetime. The excitement of being part & parcel to transformation. Being a person excited by change. Knowing that it was possible!! How rare. How fine. Divine and wonderful. A magic kind of life and love. Holding you in my heart, holding all of you in the light. Bxx

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So so lovely Betsy, so accurate. Thank you. xo

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Such a beautiful piece. Continuing to seek beauty seems like sage advice indeed.

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Happy Anniversary & here's to many more. 'There's no perfection, only life' as Kundera says in The Unbearable Lightness of Being. Best Wishes to you all.

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Swimming through the crashing thoughts/sorrow/fears. I know that feeling. Thank you for another honest post about your life and heart.

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Oh and nice fish, Daniel!!

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I am not the wordsmith so I always find myself at a loss to describe how awed I am by Isa’s beautiful writing. Today is no exception so I’ll just say mazel tov for the hike (!), and your anniversary (!) and BBRRR on the lake dive!

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So beautiful, Isa. Thank you for all you give us and the world. Sending you so much love.

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The sharp edge of beauty can, I think, eventually - over many years - trim the ragged borders of our grief. The grief will never disappear, of course; we wouldn’t want it to. But miraculously it can shrink to a size that sometimes almost feels manageable. Love to you all.

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I know you have been retired for some years but you need to get back to writing. Beautiful!

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Amazed by your strength and observations. Sending love.

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sending love with hugs.

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Beautiful reflections Isa. I’m sending all my love.

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